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From a talent acquisition executive who&#8217;s seen it all.</p><p>I&#8217;m a talent acquisition executive with 20+ years in the game.</p><p>I lead global hiring for a living.</p><p>Which means I&#8217;ve been asked a lot of questions.</p><p>&#8220;Dear Andrea, I accepted an offer, then a better one came in. Is it ever okay to back out?&#8221;</p><p>&#8212; Two Offers, One Conscience</p><p>&#8220;Dear Andrea, the CEO wants to &#8216;just hire friends&#8217; for the first 10 roles. How do I stop this?&#8221;</p><p>&#8212; Startup Nepotism Survivor</p><p>&#8220;Dear Andrea, my hiring managers take 2 weeks to give feedback, then blame me when candidates drop. Help.&#8221;</p><p>&#8212; Recruiter, Not a Magician</p><p>&#8220;Dear Andrea, I&#8217;m a first-time founder. Do I need an HR person, a recruiter, or a therapist?&#8221;</p><p>&#8212; Founder, Barely Sleeping</p><p>The questions people are scared to ask their boss, their board, their recruiter, or their group chat.</p><p>So I&#8217;m making it official.</p><p>Welcome to Dear Andrea.</p><p>A classic advice column. Anonymous and honest.</p><p>For job seekers trying to get hired.</p><p>For founders and executives trying to hire well.</p><p>For TA pros and hiring managers in the trenches.</p><p>If it touches hiring, recruiting, your career, or working mom chaos, it&#8217;s fair game.</p><p>I&#8217;ve built and led talent acquisition teams at scrappy startups and global companies. I&#8217;ve read the resumes, sat in the debriefs, and made the offers. I know what happens after you hit &#8220;Apply.&#8221; I also know what founders and hiring managers get wrong on their side of the table.</p><p>Here&#8217;s how it works:</p><p>You send your question.</p><p>You sign it with a clever pen name.</p><p>I answer it, straight up, like I would for a friend.</p><p>Let&#8217;s go back to the glory days.</p><p>&#8220;Ghosted in Gainesville.&#8221; &#8220;Headcount-Approved, Pipeline-Empty.&#8221; &#8220;First-Time Founder, Zero Recruiters.&#8221; Bring your best.</p><p>What happens in Dear Andrea stays in Dear Andrea.</p><p>Ask Andrea Anything. <a href="https://tally.so/r/MerBdp">Dear Andrea</a></p><p>Talent acquisition executive. Former D1 athlete. Mom of three. CEO of my household.</p><p>Let&#8217;s go!</p><p>Andrea</p><h2></h2><p class="button-wrapper" data-attrs="{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://www.thedearandrea.com/subscribe?&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Subscribe now&quot;,&quot;action&quot;:null,&quot;class&quot;:null}" data-component-name="ButtonCreateButton"><a class="button primary" href="https://www.thedearandrea.com/subscribe?"><span>Subscribe now</span></a></p><p></p>]]></content:encoded></item></channel></rss>